Furthermore, no matter how hard we try, sometimes, you (or your partner) are not just in the mood for lovemaking. But that doesn't mean that you forego sexual playfulness all together! And this is where subtle sex games come into play.
Shower Sex Games to Whet Your Sexual Appetites
The ABCs of Your Anatomy
While relaxing together in the bathtub, why not play the Sexual ABC game? This sex game challenges your knowledge of the human anatomy. The objective of the game is to have your partner work through the alphabet (you'll be the one dictating the letter and body part!) by gently massaging the various parts of your lover's body.
For example, for A, you tell your partner to massage your Ankle. For B, tell your partner to massage your Back. If you manage to work from A to Z, then pick your favorite massage and go back to that body part!
Take the Shower Sex Quiz!
At one time, that sexy modern-day goddess known as Angelina Jolie has been quoted as saying that something about being naked in the bathroom makes her free to discuss anything and everything (or something to that effect). So is it the perfect opportunity now to have your lover take a sex quiz while you two are in the shower? Give it a try!
In reality, one or the other always makes fun of sex quizzes but if you know how to read between the lines, there's always a glimmer of truth somewhere there. So before you get into the bath or shower tonight, browse the Internet for a fun and intriguing sex game that you and your partner can go through. Some fun quizzes can be about erogenous zones, sexual myths, sex positions,
It's a great way to know more about your partner and going through a sex positions quiz will help you gauge just how much your partner knows, and/or what he or she is willing to do in that department.
The Sexual Auction
Put together a list of at least 12 romantic or sexual activities. Here's a sample list: walking together in the park, working out together, oral sex, missionary position, woman on top, sexual massage, foot massage, bathroom sex, doggie style, cooking together, going out on a `date' (dinner out and watching a movie), and sharing a bath in the tub.
Put the activities you wrote down in a bowl or plastic bucket. Pick out an activity and using either plastic play coins or writing down amounts, make a `secret bid' for that activity.
For example, she bid $25 for a foot massage, and you bid only $10. This means that she wins the activity from you. The price is then collected at any time.
Sexual Authors
Turn off the lights, burn scented oils and light a dozen or so candles. Play some sensual music and run the bath. (If you don't have a tub, standing under a warm spay of water is perfectly fine too!)
Now lie back and close your eyes. Start a story, any story about a man and woman hot for each other. Time your story to say 2 minutes. After 2 minutes, your partner must continue the sensual story to whatever turn of events she wants to make. After the 2 minutes, it's your turn again. I guarantee that you guys will just naturally heat up the story as you go along, each turn making you ant to spell out more and more sexually graphic events.
Here's a tip: if after some time you guys really get better at your `stories', record the next time you engage in this sex game and then listen to it either while lovemaking or if your partner is away. It's a huge turn on!
In addition to sex games not always having to end in lovemaking, note too that not all sex games require a `winner' and a `loser', a `prize' and a `penalty'. Just engage in them wholeheartedly and the game is a reward in itself.
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